LOVE AND MARRIAGE interventions
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| Founder of IMI, facilitating at an event in April, 2017 |
Different levels of marriage have unique element of conduct and freedoms. The peak of religious practice and traditionalism set parameters of highest level of conducting marriage relationship. In tradition some uniqueness too occurred based on whether society was patrimonial or matrimonial. The leading and most influential sex has most benefits and decision-making roles against another in determination marriage relationships and their future. In religious sections, patrimonial took the day, under the indirect influence of the matrimonial with strong observations of the conduct so that parties enjoy fully the benefits of the marriage relationship. The diverse worlds of living -liberty, conservative traditional practice or moderates, shaped the conduct of marriage across the world - whether traditional or religion, leading to either more flexible terms of marriage, its avoidance or less responsibility and obligations over the terms of it to significant loss of value so that marriage is becomes more about bearing children rather than companion. Such influences now shape much of the world and little resistance succeeds at conserving marriage values for mutual benefits and fulfillment over extended time. In turn marriages have lost meaning to many leading to single parenthood and having sex like tea or coffee with anyone anytime.
The widespread conduct has failed the universal element of love to develop and instead replaced by violence and no cultivated love for healing and building harmony in society sustainably, and distraction of development and focus by endless conflicts, deprivations, deprivations, and even disruption of peace. In whole, society run into anarchy and instability, which renders production and economic development stagnant as focus is on spreading, inflicting pain and dealing with it to further generate fear and emotional instability in adults and later their children. There is a greater tendency towards focusing on the failure than success of marriage, which becomes self-fulfilling. Indeed once, contradictions begin, the focus on the good intentions of marriage too is deranged. This can go on and on until marriage order returns based on true love that causes reluctance to harm another and rather preserve harmony, to heal, to prosper and to realise future goals. Looking at the strengthen of true love against and effects out of show of no love, respect, royalty, responsibility for the marriage institution, which reciprocate same elements from other side and further build trust, faithfulness and naturally lasting true love relationship. Conflicts in in marriage weakened the marriage bond and gave way for room to express and invest the love elsewhere. Failed marriage relationships based on love, respect, slow to anger, responsibility and focusing on love during difficult times, is a choice, decision and action that goes on to bind, develop, strengthen and to levels that are natural and powerful to resist and nurture similar attributes in the social environment. It is necessary to have model marriages that can inspire such a trend in our society to provide invisible security to the oneself itself and expanded application of love, healing of emotion wounds and peace. Its development is gradual, undergoes several tests to mature. Challenges are faced, take toll, unlearned and overcome to build stronger relationship. It is this new states (unbreakable trust, unshaken love -with efforts to renurture it each day, persistently get in line with those virtues to allow them grow to perfection, natural phenomena - patiently; respectively discuss differences, share thoughts with questions, seek to understand before reaction, take off time for a day to week of understanding without earlier influences - before response, protect and defend values, respect institution and fear to mean it and fill in unbearable consequences of shutter and enduring personal conflict, be model of behaviour for one another, be sensitive to effect of thought or action, allow distractions to go their way - come and go; be aware of such environs that are infested with immoral forces and conscious what is best for you to thrive, focus on development to further nurture relationship and best options that constantly present themselves for lasting marriage institution; negotiate away from undesirable contexts; and build assertiveness to defend institution) that develop very loving and lasting marriage relationship. It is indeed the good deeds done out of love, respectfulness, and humility that protect the marriage institution. It is better to keep the love, respect and humility for sustainability of marriage relationships than no as much as keep the commitments to marriage that feed and nurture the relationship.
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