From "the lame excuses people give to keep bad women", i find it as promoting man's greed. In Africa, were HIV is rampant, you would be helping to cause deaths to millions. And, psychologically speaking, you would be helping cause mental problems to those in relationship. And a person could form a habit hard to deal with later on.
Economically speaking, you would be draining people of their finances due to divorce. Other perspectives as spiritual would still find it abominable to the act. Wouldn't that be criminal on your part? Secondly, there is nothing like satisfaction once and for all. There is nothing like perfection or 100%. Even nature we inherit is full of errors. Can shifting to another partner on settling with current perfect what nature or God did not.
Most definite one or two things would miss on a partner. Even the next one may be deficient of some of the areas the former had. It is only death which interferes, but a promoter of greed, as you are, would have an adventurous time as much as your followers. But if you made it a person's career to change partners as soon as settling bring undesirable features, then such would not allow one to focus on other life goals.
Yet, settling would help one to do so. But the other side of the coin you can never want to commit yourself are the adverse effects due to your advises. We would agree on scale basis of the word destructive relationship. The word destructive as used is really of high gravity that i would definately agree to in favor of throwing out a relationship. Personally, i have thrown out a few for sensitive reasons. However, one important aspect to note from your previous post is that it did not give a scale. having noted that relationships, however impressive it would have been predicted to be, must have one or two un-wanted items. But how long would one keep throwing out partner on such grounds?
But remember, as i could have mentioned, nature (God) has too provided errors in its set-up resulting into disasters man has to constantly cope with. Can man find perfection in his choices? I have been staying in a university setting for a long time both as i mere resident and as a student. But what i can tell you is that i have escaped several falls and knocks due to looking at every other beautiful ladies that passes.
Sometimes i could wonder whether i will ever settle or wether a search-for-the-best expedition will ever come to an end. But the idea that it can never end helps me put a full stop and focus on career and other life interests. I, there fore, agree with you given the intensity of relationship problem as destructive. It would be un-healthy living to keep oneself there. One would have to find the weakest part of the wall to crack, break and escape. And may be French President Sarcozy was right.
WJ, waiswajacobo@yahoo.co.uk
Economically speaking, you would be draining people of their finances due to divorce. Other perspectives as spiritual would still find it abominable to the act. Wouldn't that be criminal on your part? Secondly, there is nothing like satisfaction once and for all. There is nothing like perfection or 100%. Even nature we inherit is full of errors. Can shifting to another partner on settling with current perfect what nature or God did not.
Most definite one or two things would miss on a partner. Even the next one may be deficient of some of the areas the former had. It is only death which interferes, but a promoter of greed, as you are, would have an adventurous time as much as your followers. But if you made it a person's career to change partners as soon as settling bring undesirable features, then such would not allow one to focus on other life goals.
Yet, settling would help one to do so. But the other side of the coin you can never want to commit yourself are the adverse effects due to your advises. We would agree on scale basis of the word destructive relationship. The word destructive as used is really of high gravity that i would definately agree to in favor of throwing out a relationship. Personally, i have thrown out a few for sensitive reasons. However, one important aspect to note from your previous post is that it did not give a scale. having noted that relationships, however impressive it would have been predicted to be, must have one or two un-wanted items. But how long would one keep throwing out partner on such grounds?
But remember, as i could have mentioned, nature (God) has too provided errors in its set-up resulting into disasters man has to constantly cope with. Can man find perfection in his choices? I have been staying in a university setting for a long time both as i mere resident and as a student. But what i can tell you is that i have escaped several falls and knocks due to looking at every other beautiful ladies that passes.
Sometimes i could wonder whether i will ever settle or wether a search-for-the-best expedition will ever come to an end. But the idea that it can never end helps me put a full stop and focus on career and other life interests. I, there fore, agree with you given the intensity of relationship problem as destructive. It would be un-healthy living to keep oneself there. One would have to find the weakest part of the wall to crack, break and escape. And may be French President Sarcozy was right.
WJ, waiswajacobo@yahoo.co.uk
